Prolong Erection? – This may come as a shock to you.
Do you want to prolong your erection or do you want control?
If you’re like me and most other men you want more than just a prolonged erection, doubling it would be considered a success, right? – However…
a major multinational study by Revicki et al. (2008) found that what most males who suffer from premature ejaculation wanted was control!
Across the US, UK, Italy, France, Germany, and Poland the scientists found lack of control resulted in feelings of dissatisfaction, inadequacy, anguish and misery. Continued premature ejaculation usually led to relationship conflict and breakups.
What is the average male erection time?
It varies quite widely depending on which country you are from but the average time is about eight and a half minutes according to a study reported in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. This is the time measured using a stop watch once the penis has entered the vagina until you ejaculate. Interestingly when the men were asked how long they thought they had an erection inside their partners vagina they overestimated by nearly 2 minutes!
Consider that the earlier Kinsey studies found that almost 75%, of American males ejaculate within 2 minutes after entry, whereas females need 15 to 30 minutes of intercourse to orgasm.
Ejaculation relief but no satisfaction
Ejaculating may make us feel relieved but when our partner does not orgasm it leaves us feeling less than satisfied. Females do not expect us to bring them to orgasm every time, sometimes they are happy for us to just get it over and done with, surprised? … more about this later.
For me, even though when I used my hands and mouth to give my partner sexual satisfaction and timed my entry, I felt as if making love, lacks the intimacy, the connection… something is missing. My inability to stay erect affected my love life not just my than my sex life.
Premature ejaculation made me feel just a little inferior, less manly somehow. Mostly anxious, frustrated, and disappointed…
What’s more our partner knows we feel inadequate and don’t say anything in case they “dent our ego” or”offend us”. They make light of it because they love us but somehow this makes it worse.
A Prolonged erection means...
that when you both orgasm at the same time, there is that peak shared moment of total abandonment, exhilaration, expansion... everything that makes us feel satisfied.. those shared moments of release, tenderness, connection, vulnerability and euphoria.
What the studies on premature ejaculation show
Revecki et. al.’s study also found that, contrary to popular belief that we do not want longer erections because it makes them feel like studs or feeds their egos, But that they want to stay erect to give themselves and our partners total sexual fulfillment.
…our level of satisfaction is directly linked to our partner’s satisfaction.
Who is to blame for your premature ejaculation?
It’s not your fault that you don’t have automatic control, it’s not like our penises come with a user manual. Suddenly one-day it has a mind of its own and we are left to figure it out, often in a cloud of guilt, confusion and innuendo.
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if in your early years a mentor appeared that explained to you not only what was happening but how you can satisfy yourself and ultimately your partner…what’s best practice until you mastered prolonging your erection?
The truth is, if you are a healthy male and you don’t suffer from a physical cause of erectile dysfunction you can control and maintain your erection until your partner orgasms as many times as she desires or until you decide to ejaculate.
What is the critical measure of success of any product or treatment to staying erect?
The research says … ULTIMATE CONTROL, of course – NOT pills or creams…. that’s just treating the symptoms and not the cause.
Get the right advice
I know there are a lot of free tips and techniques out there, some of them which do more harm than good, so finally I invested, a surprisingly small amount, in myself and my relationship and got some advice from a professional sex educator who explained a simple 3 step process.
No, its not an instant fix, I found out what really works and then put it into practice. It made a lot of sense and gave me back my self-esteem and confidence. Of course once you gain a bit of this, it all becomes easier and you wonder what you were so worried and nervous about in the first place.
I did not tell my partner at first and knew I was onto a good thing when she said jokingly one night “Sean, are you having an affair – is someone coaching you?”
Thankfully the whole transaction is confidential and instantaneous.
Sex is great, make the most of it. To your health.
From the Archive: Russian Penis Doctor Restores Man’s ‘Member’The Moscow Times-27 Feb 2015
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The Guardian-28 Dec 2014
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Sydney Morning Herald-10 Nov 2014
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Belfast Telegraph-23 Dec 2014
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